People have different reasons for being single, these are:
* Those who are not just interested in going into any relationship.
* Those who feel they are not capable to handle relationship stress
* Those who finds relationship the sweet pathway to pain (heartbreak).
* Those who have no other option but to remain single.
* Those who just got out of a relationship that didn’t favour them.
We should get to know the reasons for one’s action before judging them. Just because you know a person that is single who acts in a particular manner shouldn’t give you reasons for you to generalize it and see other single person in that manner. Your relationship status shouldn’t define your personality.
That you can’t get someone to hook up with doesn’t mean you are worst, it only tells you there are other things you lack.
It true that you waste your time flaunting around guys to get them like you but none of them is in for anything serious. You may say it not just your time or luck didn’t shine your way. But you also fail to realize you have the power in you to get yourself a partner. This power refers to the inner you, your way of life, how you react to certain life issues, how u relate, how you see yourself and so on.
Here are few characters that should be looked into to help you build yourself to a better you…..
Inferiority complex. when you keep telling yourself you can’t be what you wish to be, how do you expect to get a partner. Zero your mind to what makes you have low self esteem and pride up. You have to appreciate yourself first before someone else do.
Selective personality. If you are the type of person that picks who to hangout with, too bad for you because you don’t know when you already chased the right person for you out of your life. Try to live a friendly life anybody can be the right person for you. Remember nobody is perfect, you just have to adapt and gradually induce some changes in them.
Relating with the wrong set of people. Almost every girl knows the type of guy she want to be with. Moving with people that don’t align with your taste is some what pushing you away from your dream guy. Know what you want and pursue it.
Remaining in your comfort zone. It gets to a stage in your life when you feel you are not getting what you want, you adjust and make a little change. If you keep telling yourself it cool to remain here since I find no trouble with it, praying that a day will come for him to come around, although your prayers can be answered but when?.
Share your experience ladies, tell us different practices you did to get yourself your dream man.
Drop your comments…….